When in doubt CHOOSE LOVE! (Self Love)
If you are unsure of how to handle a situation, choose love instead of trying to struggle with the scenario. Take a breath, and focus on love regarding the situation you're struggling with or your trying to figure out. What decisions to make, which direction to go, and so on. Instead of struggling and spinning in your mind, refocus, realign and focus on love. What you will find is the more that you do that, the situations that you're trying to figure out, the mental processing, decisions, and so on. The more you realigning yourself and focus on love the decision that is right for you will come to you so much faster, so much easier. You will FEEL the TRUTH of the right decision. You will know it! It's not like someone's going to have to tell it to you. You will be able to feel the correct decision to make. If we are caught up in the mind, stressing out, fearful, worried about a certain situation, or how to handle a certain situation and everything else. Again, we are not going to be able to see the best decision to make at that time. When we are in stress and survival mode and so on, it's not beneficial. The most efficient method of taking care of the situation. The fastest, most efficient way to take care of these situations and difficult situations in our lives and or with anything that we have going on. If you're not really sure what to do, refocus, realign, focus, and choose LOVE. In these scenarios you can remind yourself when you get caught up and don't know what to do. Implant the affirmation within your mind. "I choose love", realign, refocus, focus love regarding the whole scenario of which you're trying to figure out or whatever you're working through.
If you actually do what I am describing here. Over a period of time you will start to see how fast you're able to move through these situations. You will be able to move through these challenges so much more efficiently, so much faster, without stress, the worry, continual thought processing, and all that kind of stuff. It all sort of just diminishes the more that you focus on love in the different aspects that you got going on throughout your day. So give it a try! It's incredibly powerful, and the more that you do it, the more that you will be able to see its benefits!